The Pain of Love

This is a relationship manual book based on Botswana, Africa perspective. This book is all about the causes of the pains people encounter in their relationships which lead other people to kill their partners before taking their own lives. Solutions as well as counselling are availed in this highly educational book. What is written was well thought and a thorough research was conducted prior to writing it. People made decisions that they thought would not hurt their partners only to regret the consequences, the bloodshed. Eventually they were murdered. This book is aimed at empowering individuals to live peacefully with their partners. After reading this book readers will be in a position to make wise decisions and be very extra sensitive to their partners' feelings. That way the battle against passion killings will be won. What prompted the author to write this book are 2 incidents of which if he was not man enough could have committed passion killings himself. In the first incident he caught red handed his fiancée of 9 years having sex with another man in his house, bedroom, bed, blankets and using his [author's] condoms. The author was arriving from a trip and was overwhelmed by his return to reunite with his fiancée. He bought some roses and presents in his bag. It was around 2000 Hrs when he peeped through his opened bedroom window trying to ask his fiancée to go and open the entrance door for him only to find her having dog style with another man in his house. When they discovered that he was at standing outside watching a live blue movie, the 2 of them ran away leaving the author confused, surprised, shocked, unbelieving, wondering, powerless and out of words. He went to his neighbour and asked him to accompany him to the bar without telling him what he saw. In the bar he bought 15 bottles of brandy, Push Kin. He drank them for 4 days and collapsed. His neighbour took him to Princess Marina Hospital in Gaborone, Botswana, Africa where he was hospitalized for 15 days. The author became scared of women and spent 3 years without dating anybody. He found another woman who after 4 years with her he caught her with his best friend. The author and his best friend started their friendship while at primary school doing standard 4. His friend left him in a bar after telling him to wait for him there and after telling the bar attendants to serve the author with alcohol as he will come and pay when he comes back. For such kind of free alcohol availed to the author, the author became overjoyed not knowing what he was rejoicing for. His friend would leave him there, go to his partner and have sex with her. After having sex he would get money from her and go and pay for the beers the author has drank. This guy did this for a period of 3 weeks leaving the author in the bar only to go and have sex with his partner. After 3 weeks he left the author in the bar as usual and headed to the author's place. That day the author only drank 2 beers, paid for them, left a message with the bar attendants that when his friend comes they must tell him that he has retired to his place. He left without calling his friend nor his fiancée as the 2 expected the author to call him when heading home as his friend was to come and pay for the beers taken in the bar and 2, he never went with house keys as he was someone who used to lose them. That day he took the kitchen door key and his fiancée was not aware of it. When he arrived home he tried to open the sitting room door and it was locked and no key in the door. He went to the kitchen door and opened it, put the 6 beers he bought for himself in the fridge and something told him to go and inspect his bedroom. When he entered his bedroom he found the 2 there. The outer cover of his book depicts what the author saw when he came back from the bar and how the situation was like. He interviewed prisoners who killed their partners, patients at mental hospital who were affected by relationships as well as ju