Bhupinder Sandhu

The Self-Esteem Formula Bhupinder Sandhu

You are not what you consider yourself to be. You are not, you have phenomenal potential to create what you want, and you had it the day you were born. It just got covered by the layers of labels from the society, but you have the power to crack those layers and shine the unstoppable you, the real you. But as long as you believe in the picture painted by other, you could never convince yourself that you are worthy of higher and better things. The belief that you are not worthy of better things has to be changed. You have to dis-identify yourself from this and associate with the better version. In simple words self-esteem refers to the amount of realistic respect you have for yourself. It is important that you have a healthy self-esteem to lead a happy and successful life, both emotionally and physically. People with low self-esteem often have more difficulty leading a happy and successful life. People with healthy self-esteem realise that they deserve the good things in their lives, while those who suffer from low self-esteem feel that they deserve only the bad things in life. Each person is responsible for their own self-esteem and could take steps to improve their self-esteem, as a result improving their lives and the lives of the people around them. What is your life perspective? It is how you see or perceive the world around you, how you see or perceive life and more specifically your life. How you perceive your life, that is, your life perspective would directly affect how you think, feel and act. How you think, feel and act would naturally determine how your life ends. Simply put, the perspective of life is an important component in the process of creating higher self-esteem.